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Shelley's Story
When I first saw the pictures of my daughter’s wedding, I took one look at myself and was reminded of my son’s Halloween costume. Yes, he had dressed as a “fat ballerina.” I looked like I should be able to unzip myself out as a healthier, slimmer me, from inside my “fat” costume. I didn’t even recognize myself. I was depressed and felt hopeless.
After having four children, I didn’t seem to be able to lose weight. I tried what I thought was everything—pills, powders, liquids, and fad after fad. I tried supervised diets, too. I would lose a little and then regain the weight. I didn’t just want to look better; I wanted to feel better too. I had acid reflux, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, aching joints and an overwhelming realization that my weight was me not only in the quality of my life, but in taking away years as well.
After having my gall bladder removed, I spoke with my surgeon, Dr. Christina Richards, who was beginning to work with Lap-Banding, about starting a life-changing path that could bring healthy living back into my life. When I left her office I felt exhilarated and hopeful. I knew this was not a magical pill, but for once, I felt like I had someone on my side to help me with this war against obesity. Dr. Richards was realistic and positive. The Lap-Band would not be a cure-all. It would take a lot of hard work, changing life habits. On May 13, 2003 I had my Lap-Band surgery. I was home the next day and flew to visit my daughter and son-in-law in California. I felt so hopeful.
Days after leaving the hospital, I didn’t need my acid reflux medication; I had already given up sodas and was ready for the soft diet that followed. Within a few months, I was a “slimmer” 25-pounds lighter, more hopeful and ready to change my eating and behavior to become healthier. My shoes fit differently, my rings needed to be resized, and my clothes hung on me. The great thing was that was only the beginning and only part of the benefit of having had the Lap-Band. I felt better and had more energy.
I have lost 10 sizes and feel great! It isn’t an overnight change that was without work. It was a tool to change my life. Losing weight was the beginning of a decision to live longer and better. My husband and kids are proud of me. I feel comfortable in my clothes and I feel that I have gained back those years of unhealthy risk that my weight would have promised.
Of course there are times that I was discouraged or even jealous of others around me who seemed to lose weight effortlessly. But, my weight loss has been regular and healthy. I am thankful that I made the choice to have Dr. Richards perform the Lap-Band for me. It has given back my life.
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